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Post by HELENA MARIA on Aug 20, 2017 17:45:12 GMT
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Post by taranofprydain on Aug 20, 2017 17:46:29 GMT
I'm overweight myself, so yes, I would.
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Post by cherry68 on Aug 20, 2017 17:54:19 GMT
Honestly, most people are normal weight when you date them, and become overweight after marriage... 🤰🤷♀️
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Post by urbanpatrician on Aug 20, 2017 18:15:14 GMT
Yes. Because I think there's a difference between Sara Rue (who is totally dateable btw) vs Gabourey Sidibe level of weight. Latter back in 2009 is kinda past the threshold of super overweight - and I'm sorry kinda disgusts me.
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Post by HELENA MARIA on Aug 20, 2017 18:31:19 GMT
I'm overweight myself, so yes, I would. Send you a PM.
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Post by theycallmemrfish on Aug 20, 2017 18:36:16 GMT
I don't know how to word this without sounding like either a) a complete moron or b) a complete dick... but let's just say it depends on the girl and the level of overweight-ness.
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Post by thelistenercanon on Aug 20, 2017 20:22:06 GMT
It really depends. I actually did so myself, but it didn't work out and she didn't like me after the date. To be fair, I went ahead (not marriage or even sex) and I learned my lesson since then.
Anyway, I realized she wasn't that great. In fact, pretty terrible, overweight or not, because she's a baby mama, she didn't have a job and dropped out of college, she was one year behind in school, and she lied a few things from what gather such as her baby daddy leaving her when in fact she dumped him and she was having a complicated relationship with someone else. She got back with. The latter she didn't mention and even so, she still uses Match.com.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 20, 2017 20:36:30 GMT
I guess it depends how overweight, but generally no.
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Post by cherry68 on Aug 20, 2017 20:57:44 GMT
It really depends. I actually did so myself, but it didn't work out and she didn't like me after the date. To be fair, I went ahead (not marriage or even sex) and I learned my lesson since then. Anyway, I realized she wasn't that great. In fact, pretty terrible, overweight or not, because she's a baby mama, she didn't have a job and dropped out of college, she was one year behind in school, and she lied a few things from what gather such as her baby daddy leaving her when in fact she dumped him and she was having a complicated relationship with someone else. She got back with. The latter she didn't mention and even so, she still uses Match.com. It seems like weight was the least of her problems...
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Post by thelistenercanon on Aug 20, 2017 21:32:59 GMT
Yeah. Honestly, I don't know what I saw in her. I guess it's probably because someone on that site was talking/chatting to me. But when you get past that, it's like she's anything but great or even good.
I also forgot to mention I did date another overweight woman who looked sort of similar to the last one and to be honest, she seemed thinner in pics I've seen of her. Anyway, that wasn't the only problem with her. Another problem was that we couldn't talk to each other when we meet in real life. I tried talking to her, but she seems bored and not interested. She left after 20-30 minutes. What a horrible fucking date it was for me.
What's funny is that people always say the girls with hot/thin bodies, or hot in general, are selfish and only think of themselves while overweight woman are nice and think of others because they know they can't get hot guys. When in fact, those overweight women I've dated don't seem very nice and all the other thin/hot women I've come close contact with are a lot nicer and friendlier. They're honest.
Okay, maybe I'm harsh on the 2nd one since the relationship was more like we couldn't get along, but she seems bored and not interested too.
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Post by Film Socialism on Aug 21, 2017 5:51:18 GMT
looks don't really matter much to me but i think that over/underweight stuff tends to be indicative of other issues. i realize the extreme irony in me saying this.
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Post by jakesully on Aug 21, 2017 14:22:09 GMT
Hmm would probably depend on just how over weight they are. If they are flat out obese then definitely not but if its manageable /just a few extra pounds and their personality is great then hell yes! For example, the waitress in Hell or High Water (played by Katy Mixon) was so attractive to me. Would definitely date her.
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Post by tobias on Aug 22, 2017 4:51:20 GMT
Going merely by BMI you can be overweight already without really looking it. Otherwise I think Film Socialism gave a good answer. It's really not that hard to lose weight if you want to: simply eat less, especially carbohydrates and your body will burn the fat all by itself. If you are severely overweight you either lack willpower, you are genetically screwed over (or got some kind of sickness - both of these suck of course and aren't your fault) or you don't care (which is rare).
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Post by Joaquim on Aug 22, 2017 5:29:24 GMT
No.
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Post by Kirk-Picard on Aug 22, 2017 10:24:51 GMT
No because overweight people generally wouldn't have the same interests as me
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Post by HELENA MARIA on Aug 22, 2017 10:39:37 GMT
No because overweight people generally wouldn't have the same interests as meAs in "sports" ?
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Post by Kirk-Picard on Aug 22, 2017 10:51:45 GMT
No because overweight people generally wouldn't have the same interests as meAs in "sports" ? Yeah that and most physically taxing hobbies.
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Post by HELENA MARIA on Aug 22, 2017 10:59:46 GMT
As in "sports" ? Yeah that and most physically taxing hobbies. What if it's a slender person who hates those "physically taxing hobbies" ?
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Post by Kirk-Picard on Aug 22, 2017 11:26:51 GMT
Yeah that and most physically taxing hobbies. What if it's a slender person who hates those "physically taxing hobbies" ? Wouldn't date that person either.
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Post by FrancescoAbides on Aug 22, 2017 12:43:59 GMT
Yes
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Post by Barbie on Aug 23, 2017 15:41:33 GMT
Nope. I'm shallow. And it's not so much that I wouldn't date them. I'll date anyone I'm attracted to, but the point is that I'd never be attracted to an overweight person
If I was a hetero male, I would date a girl who was fat/overweight. I've seen some gorgeous overweight girls. Look at Ashley Graham. She's hot. But I've never seen a handsome fat guy
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Post by Deleted on Aug 23, 2017 16:22:35 GMT
Depends on how overweight they are. I prefer a bit overweight to super skinny tbh.
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Post by oneflyr on Aug 23, 2017 20:39:48 GMT
Fuck no
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Post by Johnny_Hellzapoppin on Sept 7, 2017 12:13:48 GMT
Sure, although it does depend on the level of 'overweight'. If we are getting into obese or morbidly obese territory, then probably not.
I would be just as likely to go for someone who has a great face on a not so great body, as I would be to go for someone with a not so great face on a killer body. In fact I'd be probably more inclined to go for the former.
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Post by lee on Oct 25, 2017 16:22:23 GMT
defininetly no.
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