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Post by wattsnew on Dec 20, 2018 5:07:19 GMT
It's pretty telling that neither pupdurcs or masterelmius have provided any evidence for the "more than two-thirds of the #MeToo hype that are pure witch hunt bullshit!!" or the "numerous cases of women for centuries lying about rape or sexual improperiety to the point of getting men lynched or killed".
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Post by pupdurcs on Dec 20, 2018 10:06:15 GMT
It's pretty telling that neither pupdurcs or masterelmius have provided any evidence for the "more than two-thirds of the #MeToo hype that are pure witch hunt bullshit!!" or the "numerous cases of women for centuries lying about rape or sexual improperiety to the point of getting men lynched or killed". We aren't the same people. And read a history book if you want to learn about the very real and tragic history of African-Americans being routinely murdered and lynched in massive numbers at the altar of white female chastity and them "crying wolf" (and it still happens today, though the end result now tends to be false imprisonment, as opposed to being hanged on a tree. Small improvements, eh!). It's not my job to educate you. Your parents should have done that. It's not my fault you choose to revel in your own ignorance. The entire town of Rosewood, Florida was completely destroyed and untold numbers of African Americans killed because Fannie Taylor lied about a black man assaulting her to protect her extra-marital affair with a white man from her husband. A 150 strong posse was rounded up to destroy a black Town based on one woman's lie....I don't think the residents of Rosewood would have agreed with the motto "believe all women". Just a guess. www.google.co.uk/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/us-news/2016/jan/03/rosewood-florida-massacre-racial-violence-reparationsThe EIJ (Equal Justice Initiative) reported 4084 racial terror lynchings on African Americans in 12 Southern States between 1877 and 1950. 25% of those lynchings took place because of an accusation of sexual assault lynchinginamerica.eji.org/report/In the notorious case of the Scotsboro Boys, 8 black teenagers (and a 12 year old black boy) were falsely accused of rape by two white women, Victoria Price and Ruby Bates. Several of those falsely charged recieved sentences ranging from 75 years to the Death Penalty. Morgan Freeman is an 81 year old man from Memphis, Tennessee. He's old enough to literally remember a time and place where he probably could and would have been killed because some idiotic woman like that reporter that #metoo'd him falsely decided she felt "assaulted" by him allegedlly looking her "up and down". And this is just a small sample.Learn your history.
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Post by cherry68 on Dec 20, 2018 12:54:54 GMT
pupdurcsI guess Idris Elba, who is a mid aged black man, should be educated about the things you told about too. His statement sounds a bit naive to say the least.
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Post by pupdurcs on Dec 20, 2018 13:12:20 GMT
pupdurcs I guess Idris Elba, who is a mid aged black man, should be educated about the things you told about too. His statement sounds a bit naive to say the least. He actually should. I guess he could use the excuse of being Black British as opposed to African--American, but I don't even think that's a great excuse, as he's pretty well travelled and spent lots of time in America and amongst African-Americans (like shooting The Wire for years in Baltimore). Elba is playing respectability politics, imho (Bill Cosby used to do that as well, but that's a whole other story). He's saying what he thinks his arguably most passionate base of fans (women) want to hear and approve of. After all, he just got named People Magazine's sexiest man of 2018. Statements like the one he made probably serve to help his career and bottom line. And it worked...celebrity women and normal women all over social media were swooning all over him when his statement came out, and reiterated how him saying that made him even more sexy to them. So from PR perspective, I understand why he said it.But yeah, as a black man in particular he should have a little more self-awareness about these things, imho. Maybe he knows the history and just doesn't care. He's a Hollywood star with bigger fish to fry.
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Post by IceTruckDexter on Dec 20, 2018 14:12:40 GMT
Listen, I was all like you at the start. I thought #metoo was doing a public service by exposing a lot of scumbags. But the overall effects of it are damaging to society as a whole. This is the stupidest shit I've read all day. The "overall effects of this movement that has exposed hundreds of individuals is damaging overall because of my five examples." Get the fuck over yourself Here's the full list of accused from Vox, and yes it includes individuals that have since been mostly cleared. But for your statement to be true the majority of these cases would have to be false. And without evidence you have no business making that assumption in favor of the men in power. Speak for yourself. Elba doesn't seem to have any trust issues with women. And you know what happens 100 times more often than Emmett Tills? Sean Hannitys and Harvey Weinsteins. It's easy to retroactively criticize a movement for overcorrecting and in the process ignore and/or forget how much the fucked-up status quo needed correcting in the first place (which is what you're doing). #MeToo has been the chemotherapy for a cancerous culture of predation, objectification, harassment, abuse, and cover-up in the film industry. What happened to Ansari and Freeman was unfortunate but I have less sympathy for them than the thousands of sexual misconduct victims who have been largely unable to speak out (or when they did they were simply ignored or silenced) and now for the first time feel empowered to do so. But by all means, keep distrusting the testimony of hundreds of women on the basis of your five examples. This whole spiel proves what a scumbag you are.
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Post by Zeb31 on Dec 20, 2018 14:18:07 GMT
pupdurcsI guess Idris Elba, who is a mid aged black man, should be educated about the things you told about too. His statement sounds a bit naive to say the least. "The black man must be educated about racism and the historical persecution of his race, a subject he doesn't know thoroughly and I'm more knowledgeable about", concluded the white person. This is a very fun thread.
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Post by cherry68 on Dec 20, 2018 14:39:46 GMT
pupdurcsI guess Idris Elba, who is a mid aged black man, should be educated about the things you told about too. His statement sounds a bit naive to say the least. "The black man must be educated about racism and the historical persecution of his race, a subject he doesn't know and I'm more knowledgeable about", concluded the white person. This is a very fun thread. I don't know pupdurcs ' ethnicity. I supposed he's American and he might be black. He showed a deeper knowledge about black people's persecutions than mine, and probably than Idris Elba 's.
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Post by pupdurcs on Dec 20, 2018 14:46:28 GMT
^^^^
I'm not African-American. But I would consider myself well read. And a history buff of sorts. Being educated or informed about a particular subject or topic isn't restricted to ethnicity or nationality. It's just about a willingness or hunger to learn
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Post by RiverleavesElmius on Dec 21, 2018 4:10:55 GMT
Emmett Till was a young impoverished boy in a marginalized minority, not an exec at a film studio. The woman who accused him (who herself was pressured by those around her) had nothing to lose by accusing him. No career or reputation to be affected. No threat of millions of people online shaming her, calling her a slut or a liar, or releasing her personal information. So Emmett Till is a terrible example to begin with. Has absolutely no bearing on the allegations of the #MeToo movement or on the ones being accused. Also no one's being lynched. This. The Emmett Till comparison is mind boggling. And I'm not even going to begin with comparing the Me Too movement to McCarthyism... also anyone who uses the term "SJW" seriously should not be taken seriously. LMAO! Well, that's certainly what a braindead SJW stooge would say. Ironic, since no one but your fellow SJW sheeps take YOU seriously here (as proven by the likes you got from the moron twins).
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Post by Tommen_Saperstein on Dec 21, 2018 7:29:51 GMT
It's pretty telling that neither pupdurcs or masterelmius have provided any evidence for the "more than two-thirds of the #MeToo hype that are pure witch hunt bullshit!!" or the "numerous cases of women for centuries lying about rape or sexual improperiety to the point of getting men lynched or killed". The entire town of Rosewood, Florida was completely destroyed and untold numbers of African Americans killed because Fannie Taylor lied about a black man assaulting her to protect her extra-marital affair with a white man from her husband. A 150 strong posse was rounded up to destroy a black Town based on one woman's lie.... I don't think the residents of Rosewood would have agreed with the motto "believe all women". Just a guess. gonna have to stop you there, chief. You're blatantly ignoring the difference in power dynamics between the current situation and 19th century deep south, and you're also ignoring the fact that the women in these situations were largely free of scrutiny from their white neighbors when they pushed an anti-black narrative while the opposite was also true. I mean, are you really just going to ignore these differences and act like Spacey losing his career for raping boys is the same as a powerless black boy with no power, money, or influence getting lynched by a mob of angry racist white men is the fucking same? Ignorant as well as offensive, and a common argument used to disbelieve rape accusers might I add. The victims in these cases you keep shamelessly appealing to were all powerless and in a marginalized social minority where they enjoyed no rights, no privileges, had little money, little if any protection from authorities, no sway or influence over public discourse or opinion or policy IN ANY RESPECT. Consequently the women had absolutely no incentive to confess any falsehoods and all the incentive in the world to maintain the lie, both for their own safety if they felt a twinge of guilt and for the pursuit of their own selfish reasons if they didn't. Victims of rape and harassment/abuse/misconduct in the film industry on the contrary have very little to gain from accusing someone in power, and historically MUCH to lose (and it's mitigating factors such as these and others why I tend to believe a person when they accuse someone of rape or misconduct or why anyone with much to lose accuses someone in a position of influence--whistleblowers for example). So no, it's not the same. Aziz Ansari didn't experience a fraction of what Emmett Till did and I seriously doubt he'd ever make such an obtuse and tone-deaf comparison. Unless you can provide any kind of evidence that isn't anecdotal and isn't from before 1950 concerning a totally separate and deep-rooted issue (seriously, you're talking about racism on such a simplistic basis-- it was a lot more than false rape allegations and the reason those cases ended in such horrifying crimes ran A LOT deeper than just "because a woman said so"), you should probably start reconsidering the viability of your position. Putting all that to one side, my choice to believe accusers generally can be boiled down to a couple common sense points stemming from statistical probabilities and basic awareness. All my evidence is current. 1) Most cases of rape and sexual misconduct go unreported in comparison with other violence crimes due to societal pressure, backlash, post-traumatic stress, and the fear (or awareness) that reporting won't result in a conviction ( less than 1% in fact). It should be apparent to anyone in the world with eyes and an internet connection that for a woman to accuse someone of sexual abuse is to historically incur public scrutiny, hate, backlash, and very little if any personal gain. There is hard statistical evidence that helps to explain this, for instance this study which found from a sampling of over 5 million tweets about rape and sexual assault that messages that undermine or question the credibility of accusers were most prevalent (46%) while messages of solidarity and validation were the least prevalent (14%). So I'd say your severely overeestimating how many people are living by the motto "believe all women." 2) False reports of sexual crimes are very low ( anywhere from 2 to 10 percent). It simply doesn't happen very often, and when it does the fake accusers are often teenagers motivated to cover up things like missing curfew or skipping school and often have criminal records/histories of lying. Famous cases get sensationalized and overblown, which is why false accusations are so often talked about despite factoring very little into the issue. What ends up happening is that people like you have more sympathy for these very visible cases (mostly men) and potential others like them than the thousands of victims of sexual crimes (mostly women) that never come forward partly because of this kind of warped, misguided and misplaced sympathy. It simply doesn't make mathematical sense to keep harping on about false reporting in the name of justice and fairness whilst simultaneously totally ignoring the scores of victims whose experiences will never be blown up or sensationalized or talked about or validated or even heard. I don't know you personally and I wouldn't begrudge anyone a reasonable level of skepticism but to act like false reporting should be anything more than a footnote in this discussion is blatantly ignorant. What happened to Ansari, Freeman, and any false or discreditable accusation is unfortunate but nowhere near as unfortunate as all the sex crime victims suffering in silence and isolation. We should be talking more about them. So, this is what it boils down to me for: Taking into account that reporting sex crimes is incredibly difficult for the victim (which itself accounts for why so many go unreported) and is often accompanied with mental and physiological stress, that women have much to lose and little to gain by reporting, that reporting takes tremendous courage, that believing accusers benefits victims (which represent the vast majority of accusers by virtue of basic probability) whilst disbelieving accusers harms and isolates victims, and that evidence of false reports is rare, I have to believe accusers. It's just a matter of statistical probabilities. I have to. If you believe every accuser you'll be right almost all of the time and the net result will be positive both for the accuser and for other potential accusers considering whether or not to come forward. It's possible to do this and still maintain a healthy level of skepticism, which is what most people did in response to those Ansari and Freeman articles and their careers were almost entirely unaffected. They're going to be just fine.
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Post by pupdurcs on Dec 21, 2018 9:06:25 GMT
^^^^^^ No "chief". Just no. Slow your roll on the power dynamics thing. It's not a one-shop excuse for everything, including lying.The consistency of so many African-Americans dying or being lynched in this situation was the ease and willingness for women to tell a lie. That's all it took. A lie. People lie, and then people suffer and die for it. The ability and willingness of men and women to lie or exaggerate about anything, never changes. Whether it's 19th Century Deep south or 2018 New York. The lying is not caused by "Power Dynamics". It's an ingrained part of human nature, and it always needs to be factored. This is why things like "evidence" and "reasonable doubt" and "innocent until proven guilty" still matter in a civilized society. Otherwise, you might as well just bring back the days of the Salem Witch Hunts, when an acussation alone was pretty much good enough to burn any "witch". Your complete lack of empathy when I brought up Emmett Till and the real fact thousands of African-American men have died at the altar on the credo of "believe all women" (especially white women) tells me that this is a hill you are going to die on, regardless of any reasonable case to the contrary. Get outta here with this bullshit. 2-10%?!! That's still too many!!! Those figures (and I'm fully aware of them) are also meaningless are actually pretty useless, because they don't take into account the number of accusations made that are investigated and an assault was unable to be proven. So in actuality, we don"t know the real numbers or percentages of women who make up false claims. They may well be much higher. ONE life taken....ONE life ruined by a lie and a miscarriage of justice is ONE life too many. Y'all out here acting "like, oh well, if you gotta make an an omlette, you gotta break a few eggs". If some dumb suckers have to go jail or suffer a lifetime of depression so women can have the freedom to accuse people of all sorts of impropriety on the intenet without consequence, so be it. You have tremendous empathy for women that have been harrased or abused (which is great!), but seemingly for no one else ( not for dead black men or victims of miscarriages of justice, which you seem to disregard as minor or collateral damage from the past). And it really shows. And frankly, it makes you a terrible advocate, because anyone reading this entire conversation can clearly see how lacking you are in empathy to anyone outside of your pet cause. We have a system called due process. It's flawed and constantly in need of revision, but I'll take it over this "Trial By Social Media" and "believe all women" propaganda nonsense. How many times do I have to say that #metoo has moved beyond fat Hollywood execs groping actresses in their office "Power dynamics" into the realm of bad dates (Ansari) and failed relationships (Chris Hardwick). It's now an all encompassing thing, and that's hugely problematic. #metoo is a general societal movement now, and not just confined to the film industry. I think you fully know this, but the fact that you keep ignoring or sidestepping that reality is maddening. In 2017, Breanna Harmon lied to police about 3 black men raping and kidnapping her. Harmon recieved no jail time. www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.theroot.com/woman-who-lied-to-police-about-3-black-men-raping-and-k-1823325223/ampIn 2016, 20 year old Nikki Yovino ruined the lives of two African-American college football players by falsely accusing them of rape because she didn't want to lose a potential boyfriend. Both had to leave college and one lost his football scholarship. In theory, the "Power Dynamic" was all on the side of these bigshot College Ballers, yet this woman felt brave enough to lie about these "m ore powerful men" raping her. www.google.co.uk/amp/s/nypost.com/2018/06/05/former-college-student-who-claimed-rape-admits-it-was-all-lies/amp/In June 2018, Mary Zolkowski of Bay City Michigan was sentenced (for only 45 days) for making up false allegations of being raped by a black man. m.ourweekly.com/news/2018/jun/26/white-woman-who-falsely-claimed-black-man-raped-he/In New York, in 2018, 53 year old Teresa Klein falsely reported a 9 year old African-American boy to the Police for sexually assaulting her. CCTV evidence proved her story false. www.google.co.uk/amp/s/thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/news/411241-white-woman-called-police-to-falsely-accuse-black-child-of%3fampThese cases are not from the 19th Century Deep South. All in the last 2 years. It's STILL HAPPENING!!!! And it's not more ok or acceptable because they don"t get lynched at the end of it.You can't make up any bullshit excuses about "Power dynamics", racist white men encouraging them to lie, it only happened because oppressed blacks had no rights back then blah blah blah . This shit still happens every fucking day. Women are still lying about this stuff... simply because they can. Because it's an inescapable part of human nature. Maybe the victims (those falsely accused) might not be lynched these days, but they still suffer in many ways. And you don't care or will happily dismiss their pain, because you care more about some one elses discomfort.
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Post by cherry68 on Dec 21, 2018 14:03:28 GMT
pupdurcsI'd add all the accusers who just want attention from the media and/or money from the person they accused. Actually anyone could get in an elevator or something with another person and accuse him/her of sexual harassment. Obviously the police won't find any evidence, but reputation will be damaged and suspicion will follow him/her forever.
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Post by Tommen_Saperstein on Dec 22, 2018 6:37:29 GMT
Otherwise, you might as well just bring back the days of the Salem Witch Hunts, when an acussation alone was pretty much good enough to burn any "witch". Except there was no evidence or scientific basis for witchcraft but we do know that the film industry has always been predatory and unsafe for women and rife with sexual abuse and harassment. What I took issue with is your fallacious use of Emmett Till as an example to justify your own lack of empathy for rape victims. The comparison is misguided and uniformed, and ignores both the realities of the present day situation and the one you keep bringing up. What happened to Till and every other lynching victim was disgusting and horrible and shameful beyond words, which is why your constant and shameless appeals to it are so offensive. Power dynamics matter because they affect incentives. Accusing a black man in the 19th century was a get out of jail free card. Accusing someone of rape today is just to incur mental stress, PTSD, public backlash, speculation, accusations, and personal attacks (imagine how you might feel if you came forward to a friend or loved one and told them that a 50 year-old man cornered you in a room and jacked off in front of you and they respond with "can't pick sides, you might be lying" -- that's what every accuser experiences, and the study I posted in my last post indicated that those kinds of accusatory and dismissive messages account for the majority of public feedback). In these 19th and 20th century examples you keep bringing up, I wonder when these women accused a black man of rape how many of their husbands and angry white neighbors called them "sluts" and brushed it off. Not many I assume. They might have, if their blind racist hatred wasn't as strong. Every time a rape goes unreported and a rapist goes unconvicted is a greater miscarriage of justice. Less than 1% of reported rapes result in convictions and only a fraction of rapes are even reported in the first place. That's thousands of individuals suffering in silence who won't see justice if they don't come forward and probably won't even if they do. You don't seem to give a shit about them. And lives aren't always ruined by these kinds of false reports. Several of the examples you yourself have brought up are a case in point. Except the problem is that real justice isn't getting done because the vast majority of rapists get away with it. Rape is very difficult to prove but that sure as hell doesn't mean it isn't a widespread fucking problem, and justice is bought and paid for. Do you really think without social media Spacey and Weinstein and Hannity couldn't just have hidden behind their vast wealth and paid their way out of it? Happens all the time. Hell no, it's because of social media that those scumbags are out of jobs. And if you really think what they did was shitty you'd take off your rose-colored glasses for a moment to remember that. Due process is great but you'd be lying to yourself if you believed it resulted in actual justice most of the time. And the fact is that it only results in real justice in sex crime cases a tiny fraction of the time. Measuring out justice only in terms of convictions and exoneration give you a warped perception of reality skewed in favor of the white and upperclass. It's not that hard to exploit the justice system or find loopholes in it. Ansari's case was so short-lived I don't know why you keep bringing it up. You're talking about over-correcting and escalation but that story died so fucking fast. As for Hadrwick, to my knowledge nothing was proven as to his guilt or innocence because Dykstra wasn't involved in the investigation (which admittedly is a red flag). And in lieu of that information AMC re-hired him so he still has a career. He's going to be fine. Dykstra on the other hand was blacklisted as a result of her accusation. Whether she was telling the truth or not, she certainly felt repercussions as well. And you also act like accusers have stopped making valid or substantial allegations. Steven Wilder Striegel was just accused in September of sexually abusing a girl when she was 14 and he had already plead guilty to those charges in 2010. Depardieu was accused of rape in August (still under investigation). Chase Finlay was accused in August of sending unsolicited nudes. Rick Day was accused in July of sexually assaulting and abusing boys during photo shoots. We haven't moved into the realm of "bad dates" and "failed relationships," we're still very much in the realm of rape, harassment, and intimidation, and you'd know that if you did a quick Google search. But again, you're cherrypicking a couple select examples and blowing them out of proportion with no semblance of the bigger picture. Ansari, Hardwick, and Freeman are exceptions, and in no way indicative of escalation or overcorrection. I'm not denying that it happens occasionally, but YOU'RE denying that it's rare, and you're also denying that sexual violence is a widespread issue despite statistical (not anecdotal) evidence to the contrary. "And you don't care or will happily dismiss their pain, because you care more about some one elses discomfort." -- No, that's what you're doing, except you're doing it for A LOT more people. Astronomically more.
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Post by Tommen_Saperstein on Dec 22, 2018 6:59:52 GMT
pupdurcs I'd add all the accusers who just want attention from the media and/or money from the person they accused. Actually anyone could get in an elevator or something with another person and accuse him/her of sexual harassment. Obviously the police won't find any evidence, but reputation will be damaged and suspicion will follow him/her forever. just because someone can do something doesn't mean they will. And which accusers are getting money?? Most women that have reported sex crimes against people in positions of power LOSE money, and influence, and gigs. They're blacklisted, not given payouts.
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Post by urbanpatrician on Dec 22, 2018 7:35:13 GMT
^^^^^^ No "chief". Just no. Slow your roll on the power dynamics thing. It's not a one-shop excuse for everything, including lying.The consistency of so many African-Americans dying or being lynched in this situation was the ease and willingness for women to tell a lie. That's all it took. A lie. People lie, and then people suffer and die for it. The ability and willingness of men and women to lie or exaggerate about anything, never changes. Whether it's 19th Century Deep south or 2018 New York. The lying is not caused by "Power Dynamics". It's an ingrained part of human nature, and it always needs to be factored. This is why things like "evidence" and "reasonable doubt" and "innocent until proven guilty" still matter in a civilized society. Otherwise, you might as well just bring back the days of the Salem Witch Hunts, when an acussation alone was pretty much good enough to burn any "witch". Your complete lack of empathy when I brought up Emmett Till and the real fact thousands of African-American men have died at the altar on the credo of "believe all women" (especially white women) tells me that this is a hill you are going to die on, regardless of any reasonable case to the contrary. Get outta here with this bullshit. 2-10%?!! That's still too many!!! Those figures (and I'm fully aware of them) are also meaningless are actually pretty useless, because they don't take into account the number of accusations made that are investigated and an assault was unable to be proven. So in actuality, we don"t know the real numbers or percentages of women who make up false claims. They may well be much higher. ONE life taken....ONE life ruined by a lie and a miscarriage of justice is ONE life too many. Y'all out here acting "like, oh well, if you gotta make an an omlette, you gotta break a few eggs". If some dumb suckers have to go jail or suffer a lifetime of depression so women can have the freedom to accuse people of all sorts of impropriety on the intenet without consequence, so be it. You have tremendous empathy for women that have been harrased or abused (which is great!), but seemingly for no one else ( not for dead black men or victims of miscarriages of justice, which you seem to disregard as minor or collateral damage from the past). And it really shows. And frankly, it makes you a terrible advocate, because anyone reading this entire conversation can clearly see how lacking you are in empathy to anyone outside of your pet cause. We have a system called due process. It's flawed and constantly in need of revision, but I'll take it over this "Trial By Social Media" and "believe all women" propaganda nonsense. How many times do I have to say that #metoo has moved beyond fat Hollywood execs groping actresses in their office "Power dynamics" into the realm of bad dates (Ansari) and failed relationships (Chris Hardwick). It's now an all encompassing thing, and that's hugely problematic. #metoo is a general societal movement now, and not just confined to the film industry. I think you fully know this, but the fact that you keep ignoring or sidestepping that reality is maddening. In 2017, Breanna Harmon lied to police about 3 black men raping and kidnapping her. Harmon recieved no jail time. www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.theroot.com/woman-who-lied-to-police-about-3-black-men-raping-and-k-1823325223/ampIn 2016, 20 year old Nikki Yovino ruined the lives of two African-American college football players by falsely accusing them of rape because she didn't want to lose a potential boyfriend. Both had to leave college and one lost his football scholarship. In theory, the "Power Dynamic" was all on the side of these bigshot College Ballers, yet this woman felt brave enough to lie about these "m ore powerful men" raping her. www.google.co.uk/amp/s/nypost.com/2018/06/05/former-college-student-who-claimed-rape-admits-it-was-all-lies/amp/In June 2018, Mary Zolkowski of Bay City Michigan was sentenced (for only 45 days) for making up false allegations of being raped by a black man. m.ourweekly.com/news/2018/jun/26/white-woman-who-falsely-claimed-black-man-raped-he/In New York, in 2018, 53 year old Teresa Klein falsely reported a 9 year old African-American boy to the Police for sexually assaulting her. CCTV evidence proved her story false. www.google.co.uk/amp/s/thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/news/411241-white-woman-called-police-to-falsely-accuse-black-child-of%3fampThese cases are not from the 19th Century Deep South. All in the last 2 years. It's STILL HAPPENING!!!! And it's not more ok or acceptable because they don"t get lynched at the end of it.You can't make up any bullshit excuses about "Power dynamics", racist white men encouraging them to lie, it only happened because oppressed blacks had no rights back then blah blah blah . This shit still happens every fucking day. Women are still lying about this stuff... simply because they can. Because it's an inescapable part of human nature. Maybe the victims (those falsely accused) might not be lynched these days, but they still suffer in many ways. And you don't care or will happily dismiss their pain, because you care more about some one elses discomfort. Pretty good post, pupdurcs. I don't think Social Media understands the reality of this issue, tbh. They clearly seem to consider certain cases of rape and sexual harassment as more severe than others... and that's just something I don't get. These fucking precendence levels that they have.... blah. When cases gets reported about Hollywood execs and their disgusting groping - the SJWs come out in droves, but individual disgusting cases of rape by a bunch of drunk Alabama truck drivers you don't hear them vilify nearly as severely. Or rather, they don't seem to know about them, or ignore them because their fellow SJWs aren't talking about them. Sounds like these SJW "experts" who oughta know the stuff they regularly vilify don't actually know their stuff that well. Seems like they band together and form some common mindset and leech off of each other. And they seem shockingly silent on black men getting accused of rape, whether falsely or unfalsely. A woman once threatened to accuse me of rape and harassment because I didn't want to loan her any more money, I thought I was generous enough already loaning her already quite a lot. But she asked for more. Not that I ever took her threats seriously, but sometimes women accuse some people of rape just because they don't like you, or have some personal conflict with you. Again, I'm not saying rape doesn't happen. It does and most of the times it's simply a poor woman taken advantage of by a goddamn rapist bastard. But both of these things happen, and I can definitely see how these lying conniving women you speak of can try to take advantage of the situation by trying to raise the issue of inherent black male rapist tendencies. Believe it or not, most cops gets super aggressive and hateful at the slightest provocation of black male committed crimes - whether it's an actual credible source of accusation or not. They're just inherently conditioned to racially profile when it pertains to black male crimes.
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Post by cherry68 on Dec 22, 2018 7:47:52 GMT
pupdurcs I'd add all the accusers who just want attention from the media and/or money from the person they accused. Actually anyone could get in an elevator or something with another person and accuse him/her of sexual harassment. Obviously the police won't find any evidence, but reputation will be damaged and suspicion will follow him/her forever. just because someone can do something doesn't mean they will. And which accusers are getting money?? Most women that have reported sex crimes against people in positions of power LOSE money, and influence, and gigs. They're blacklisted, not given payouts. Lots of people sign an extrajudicial agreement. Many times is to avoid bad publicity. Or sometimes it's an ex trying to get more money from a divorce. Don't tell me these things don't happen, and they aren't rare either.
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Post by pupdurcs on Dec 22, 2018 8:28:06 GMT
Otherwise, you might as well just bring back the days of the Salem Witch Hunts, when an acussation alone was pretty much good enough to burn any "witch". Except there was no evidence or scientific basis for witchcraft but we do know that the film industry has always been predatory and unsafe for women and rife with sexual abuse and harassment. What I took issue with is your fallacious use of Emmett Till as an example to justify your own lack of empathy for rape victims. The comparison is misguided and uniformed, and ignores both the realities of the present day situation and the one you keep bringing up. What happened to Till and every other lynching victim was disgusting and horrible and shameful beyond words, which is why your constant and shameless appeals to it are so offensive. Power dynamics matter because they affect incentives. Accusing a black man in the 19th century was a get out of jail free card. Accusing someone of rape today is just to incur mental stress, PTSD, public backlash, speculation, accusations, and personal attacks (imagine how you might feel if you came forward to a friend or loved one and told them that a 50 year-old man cornered you in a room and jacked off in front of you and they respond with "can't pick sides, you might be lying" -- that's what every accuser experiences, and the study I posted in my last post indicated that those kinds of accusatory and dismissive messages account for the majority of public feedback). In these 19th and 20th century examples you keep bringing up, I wonder when these women accused a black man of rape how many of their husbands and angry white neighbors called them "sluts" and brushed it off. Not many I assume. They might have, if their blind racist hatred wasn't as strong. Every time a rape goes unreported and a rapist goes unconvicted is a greater miscarriage of justice. Less than 1% of reported rapes result in convictions and only a fraction of rapes are even reported in the first place. That's thousands of individuals suffering in silence who won't see justice if they don't come forward and probably won't even if they do. You don't seem to give a shit about them. And lives aren't always ruined by these kinds of false reports. Several of the examples you yourself have brought up are a case in point. Except the problem is that real justice isn't getting done because the vast majority of rapists get away with it. Rape is very difficult to prove but that sure as hell doesn't mean it isn't a widespread fucking problem, and justice is bought and paid for. Do you really think without social media Spacey and Weinstein and Hannity couldn't just have hidden behind their vast wealth and paid their way out of it? Happens all the time. Hell no, it's because of social media that those scumbags are out of jobs. And if you really think what they did was shitty you'd take off your rose-colored glasses for a moment to remember that. Due process is great but you'd be lying to yourself if you believed it resulted in actual justice most of the time. And the fact is that it only results in real justice in sex crime cases a tiny fraction of the time. Measuring out justice only in terms of convictions and exoneration give you a warped perception of reality skewed in favor of the white and upperclass. It's not that hard to exploit the justice system or find loopholes in it. Ansari's case was so short-lived I don't know why you keep bringing it up. You're talking about over-correcting and escalation but that story died so fucking fast. As for Hadrwick, to my knowledge nothing was proven as to his guilt or innocence because Dykstra wasn't involved in the investigation (which admittedly is a red flag). And in lieu of that information AMC re-hired him so he still has a career. He's going to be fine. Dykstra on the other hand was blacklisted as a result of her accusation. Whether she was telling the truth or not, she certainly felt repercussions as well. And you also act like accusers have stopped making valid or substantial allegations. Steven Wilder Striegel was just accused in September of sexually abusing a girl when she was 14 and he had already plead guilty to those charges in 2010. Depardieu was accused of rape in August (still under investigation). Chase Finlay was accused in August of sending unsolicited nudes. Rick Day was accused in July of sexually assaulting and abusing boys during photo shoots. We haven't moved into the realm of "bad dates" and "failed relationships," we're still very much in the realm of rape, harassment, and intimidation, and you'd know that if you did a quick Google search. But again, you're cherrypicking a couple select examples and blowing them out of proportion with no semblance of the bigger picture. Ansari, Hardwick, and Freeman are exceptions, and in no way indicative of escalation or overcorrection. I'm not denying that it happens occasionally, but YOU'RE denying that it's rare, and you're also denying that sexual violence is a widespread issue despite statistical (not anecdotal) evidence to the contrary. "And you don't care or will happily dismiss their pain, because you care more about some one elses discomfort." -- No, that's what you're doing, except you're doing it for A LOT more people. Astronomically more. Like I said, you've lost this argument already. Or at least make an extremely poor advocate for your own cause. Because you can't disguise your lack of empathy. Trying to turn my own claim back on me and say "you lack empathy for rape victims" is just lazy and suggests you are running out of ideas here. I have massive empathy for rape victims. It's a horrific crime that should never be minimised. But I also have empathy for other victims and those that face injustice, and two wrongs don't make a right. And their suffering should never be minimised, which you can't help but do every time you speak. You are the one trying to minimise of dismiss the suffering of others by saying "It's rare, you shouldn't be talking about it, It' RARE, they don't always suffer, victims of sexual assault ar more important than victims of anything else. It's Rare! More people matter!!! If some people (blacks, children, men) gotta suffer to save many more rape victims, it's not so bad" It's RARE. Statistics, statistics. Rare.Rare! Cherrypicking. My suffering matters more than yours.RARE! All these black chumps falsely accused....SENSATIONALISED!!!! It was ONLY one 9 year old kid that got falsely accused by a white lady.The little bastard will get over it. But those who suffer in silence won't. RARE!" I know you think what you are saying doesn't make you sound bad (trust me, it's a very bad look and you won't be winning any neutrals over to your side with it). But that's something you need to look inwards and figure out why for yourself. I'm just trying to help you out, so next time you enter this type of debate, you don't make such fatal miscalculations. But your arguments and how you frame them are pretty much the reason so many people despise "white feminism". It's lack of intersectionality and sheer selfish, self-centredness. And you are peak white feminism. My even mentioning the tragic history and present of African-Americans and false sexual assault accusations isn't met any genuine empathy or introspection or even real interest, but cynical and selfish claims of me "shamelessly appealing", as if that history (and present) is just an annoying inconvenience that gets in the way of making your own argument unstoppablely righteous. You are pretty much saying "why you even gotta bring that up. They don't matter", which is kinda sad. And again, one of the reasons you lost this. It's been fun, but I think we can wrap this one up now. Not much point going on in circles and putting up more massive walls of text because you don't want be seen to come out second best in a debate. Shit happens. I'm sure you will learn from this. Good luck!
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Post by MsMovieStar on Dec 22, 2018 14:53:10 GMT
Oh honeys, I love Idris Elba! He's so hot! I would love to drag him to the shower and ride him like a water slide...
Oh, I'm sorry. That's the totally wrong response to this thread...
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